“When they saw that the star had stopped, they were overwhelmed with joy. On entering the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother; and they knelt down and paid him homage. Then, opening their treasure chests, they offered him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.” Matthew 2:10-11 (NRSV)
There’s a saying that it’s more blessed to give than to receive. How do we really feel about that statement though?
Sometimes it’s really easy to focus on our own needs and lose sight of what those around us might be going through. It’s easy to be so focused on one’s financial or material needs that it’s hard to remember that another person could benefit even by a blood donation at the Red Cross, or a by donation of clothing or furniture that we aren’t using anymore.
It’s even easier, when we are suffering and in pain, to wall ourselves off and not be aware of the ways we might be able to alleviate the pain and suffering of others. In so doing, we just become more deeply mired in our pain and more stuck in a bad situation. We often have no idea how much joy we could give- and receive- by reaching out to someone who might also be in pain or suffering.
Yet in giving, and in gratitude, we receive far more than we could think to ask for.
The wise men brought Jesus precious and expensive gifts, and this was a beautiful act. Yet there is no gift they could have brought that would compare to the gift He came to give us.
How can we be a blessing- and receive a blessing- by giving today? Not necessarily materially or financially, but how can we give a gift of service, or care, or time?